Repair your relationship

Posted on Sat February 9, 2013 in Couple time.

Time to repair your relationship?
Why do couples come to Vaal Nest Boutique Hotel at Vaal Marina, Vaal Dam for a romantic break away? Most want to have a quiet time together to rediscover each other. For many the relationship needs a little reparation and alterations and for others it gives the time to talk and form a stronger relationship.
Each of the 12 luxurious suites at Vaal Nest has a view of the Vaal Dam. Together with the tranquil setting it forms the ideal setting for a romantic break away.
A relationship needs constant upkeep. We work so hard on our relationships before marriage and the we tend to relax. Big mistake! says psychologists. If you want you want to celebrate your golden anniversary together, you better work hard.
One of the problems couples encounter is when they tend to get bored with the relationship and start looking elsewhere for entertainment.
It does not always mean a full scare affair. Sometimes it is emotional infidelity.
A psychologist describes this kind of infidelity as a friendship with the opposite sex that doesn’t necessarily break spoken vows. But it can cause serious damage to a relationship. He says there is no such thing as harmless flirting.
These “entertaining” friendships can form at the workplace or over the internet. It starts as harmless chatting. The moment you start feeling a bit self-conscious about it. The red flag should rise, he says.
“Then it is time to give more attention to your marriage. Get back the old excitement. Book a weekend at a romantic setting. Soon you will remember why you fell in love!”